{"id":686,"date":"2010-01-01T21:03:00","date_gmt":"2010-01-01T19:03:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jessisphere.wordpress.com\/2010\/01\/01\/its-not-me-its-you"},"modified":"2016-06-10T19:33:25","modified_gmt":"2016-06-10T17:33:25","slug":"its-not-me-its-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.arhammar.se\/jessica\/its-not-me-its-you\/","title":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s not me, it&#8217;s you"},"content":{"rendered":"<div align=\"center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.arhammar.se\/jessica\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/7b3e7-100101.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5421849224439970146\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.arhammar.se\/jessica\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/7b3e7-100101.jpg?w=620\" \/><\/a> <em>Jag var f\u00f6rsten att g\u00e5 ut ur v\u00e5rt hus 2010, hurra! (Det \u00e4r s\u00e5dant man f\u00e5r t\u00e4nka, n\u00e4r man pulsar ut f\u00f6r att leta upp 16A-proppar klockan nio en ny\u00e5rsdagsmorgon.)<\/em><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Dags att tillk\u00e4nnage \u00e5rets ny\u00e5rsl\u00f6fte: <em>2010 blir \u00e5ret d\u00e5 jag slutar att ta \u00e5t mig av andras hum\u00f6r, och jobbar med att kunna skilja p\u00e5 vad som har med mig att g\u00f6ra, och vad jag inte kan g\u00f6ra n\u00e5got \u00e5t<\/em>. Jag r\u00e4knar inte med att \u00e5rets l\u00f6fte blir l\u00e4tt, men jag har en del strategier som ska hj\u00e4lpa mig att fixa det. <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/jessisphere.blogspot.com\/search\/label\/ny%C3%A5rsl%C3%B6fte#uds-search-results\">H\u00e4r \u00e4r tidigare ny\u00e5rsl\u00f6ften<\/a>, som alla \u00e4r \u00f6verflyttade och traditionsenligt forts\u00e4tter att g\u00e4lla. Vad har ni f\u00f6r ny\u00e5rsl\u00f6ften?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jag var f\u00f6rsten att g\u00e5 ut ur v\u00e5rt hus 2010, hurra! (Det \u00e4r s\u00e5dant man f\u00e5r t\u00e4nka, n\u00e4r man pulsar ut f\u00f6r att leta upp 16A-proppar klockan nio en ny\u00e5rsdagsmorgon.) Dags att tillk\u00e4nnage \u00e5rets ny\u00e5rsl\u00f6fte: 2010 blir \u00e5ret d\u00e5 jag slutar att ta \u00e5t mig av andras hum\u00f6r, och jobbar med att kunna skilja p\u00e5 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[867],"tags":[487,520,578],"class_list":["post-686","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-867","tag-morgon","tag-nyarslofte","tag-proppar"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p7CFOs-b4","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":563,"url":"https:\/\/www.arhammar.se\/jessica\/slapp-mobilerna-loss-det-ar-nyar\/","url_meta":{"origin":686,"position":0},"title":"Sl\u00e4pp mobilerna loss, det \u00e4r ny\u00e5r","author":"Jessica","date":"December 22, 2011","format":false,"excerpt":"Ingen orsak till panik.Jag knotar p\u00e5 med mina ny\u00e5rsl\u00f6ften, och jag vet vad nyckeln till framg\u00e5ng \u00e4r. 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Dessutom\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;2007&quot;","block_context":{"text":"2007","link":"https:\/\/www.arhammar.se\/jessica\/category\/2007\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":1720,"url":"https:\/\/www.arhammar.se\/jessica\/arets-glimtar-och-nya-loften\/","url_meta":{"origin":686,"position":3},"title":"\u00c5rets glimtar och nya l\u00f6ften","author":"Jessica","date":"December 31, 2008","format":false,"excerpt":"Gott nytt \u00e5r!Mitt tv\u00e5hundrade inl\u00e4gg skriver jag p\u00e5 sista dagen av ett h\u00e4ndelserikt \u00e5r.Januari - Vi valde skola \u00e5t Hannes, en v\u00e4ldigt konstig k\u00e4nsla n\u00e4r man har en son som precis l\u00e4mnat fyra\u00e5rs\u00e5ldern. Jag slog personb\u00e4sta p\u00e5 Blocket och kungjorde \u00e4ven att jag avbryter min h\u00f6jdhopparkarri\u00e4r.Februari - Jag sa upp\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;2008&quot;","block_context":{"text":"2008","link":"https:\/\/www.arhammar.se\/jessica\/category\/2008\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":1815,"url":"https:\/\/www.arhammar.se\/jessica\/gamla-loften-och-nya\/","url_meta":{"origin":686,"position":4},"title":"Gamla l\u00f6ften och nya","author":"Jessica","date":"January 4, 2008","format":false,"excerpt":"L\u00e4gg bara till tv\u00e5 mammor p\u00e5 semester.I dag har jag varit lite galen och k\u00f6pt en gris i en s\u00e4ck. Det var i och f\u00f6r sig en tjusig s\u00e4ck med bra l\u00e4ge, men \u00e4nd\u00e5 en chansning. Det var som att jag manifesterade f\u00f6rra \u00e5rets ny\u00e5rsl\u00f6fte (Face my fears) med en\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;2008&quot;","block_context":{"text":"2008","link":"https:\/\/www.arhammar.se\/jessica\/category\/2008\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":646,"url":"https:\/\/www.arhammar.se\/jessica\/litet-ego-har-ocksa-oron\/","url_meta":{"origin":686,"position":5},"title":"Litet ego har ocks\u00e5 \u00f6ron","author":"Jessica","date":"July 20, 2010","format":false,"excerpt":"Pojken p\u00e5 bilden har ingenting med blogginl\u00e4gget att g\u00f6ra. Han \u00e4r bara s\u00f6t.Nu ska jag ber\u00e4tta precis hur sj\u00e4lvcentrerad jag \u00e4r. 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