{"id":1783,"date":"2008-03-12T15:34:00","date_gmt":"2008-03-12T20:34:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.arhammar.se\/jessica\/ensoffefamiljen\/"},"modified":"2016-07-06T15:32:38","modified_gmt":"2016-07-06T20:32:38","slug":"ensoffefamiljen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.arhammar.se\/jessica\/ensoffefamiljen\/","title":{"rendered":"Ensoffefamiljen"},"content":{"rendered":"<div align=\"center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bp3.blogger.com\/_ULXJBcQCiXU\/R9g-brAzEkI\/AAAAAAAAA2o\/qd9AXeO3BDQ\/s1600-h\/080412.JPG\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5176956416785846850\" style=\"DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bp3.blogger.com\/_ULXJBcQCiXU\/R9g-brAzEkI\/AAAAAAAAA2o\/qd9AXeO3BDQ\/s320\/080412.JPG?w=620\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a> <em>F\u00f6r\u00e4ndringens vindar bl\u00e5ser p\u00e5 \u00e5sen.<\/em><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>S\u00e5 var det Blocket-dags igen. N\u00e4r vi k\u00f6pte soffan som s\u00e5ldes i dag, s\u00e5 fick vi ett infall och gjorde oss inte av med den gamla soffan. Sedan dess har vi alltid haft tv\u00e5 soffor, hur litet vi \u00e4n har bott. Vi har varit <em>de som har tv\u00e5 soffor<\/em>. Nu \u00e4r det slut p\u00e5 den eran, i alla fall f\u00f6r ett tag. F\u00f6r\u00e4ndring \u00e4r bra. Jag gillar f\u00f6r\u00e4ndring.<\/p>\n<p>Den h\u00e4r g\u00e5ngen var det en pappa med typ femton\u00e5rig son som kom hit och tog med sig soffan. Jag \u00e4lskar att tr\u00e4ffa ok\u00e4nda, vanliga m\u00e4nniskor och se hur trevliga och just vanliga de flesta \u00e4r. Det st\u00e4mmer med min v\u00e4rldsbild.<\/p>\n<p>Jag pratade p\u00e5 och sonen undvek \u00f6gonkontakt, log blygt och svarade enstavigt p\u00e5 det d\u00e4r viset som ton\u00e5rskillar g\u00f6r. Det slog mig att jag \u00e4r vuxen i hans \u00f6gon, han tyckte det var lite sm\u00e5jobbigt att prata med mig n\u00e4r pappan var ute och fixade med bilen. Jag blev lite nerv\u00f6s av den insikten, och n\u00e4r de provsatt i soffan och pappan sa &#8220;det \u00e4r han som ska ha soffan i sitt rum&#8221;, s\u00e5 var det <em>v\u00e4ldigt <\/em>n\u00e4ra att jag sa n\u00e5got i stil med &#8220;ja, den \u00e4r ju sk\u00f6n n\u00e4r man vill h\u00e4nga med kompisarna&#8221;, men jag svalde det i allra sista stund. Herregud! T\u00e4nk om jag b\u00f6rjar dansa s\u00e5 d\u00e4r ocks\u00e5, med armarna i 90 graders vinkel.<\/p>\n<p>Fast \u00e4sch. Vem bryr sig. Allt ska man vara (med om) s\u00e5 sm\u00e5ningom.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>F\u00f6r\u00e4ndringens vindar bl\u00e5ser p\u00e5 \u00e5sen. S\u00e5 var det Blocket-dags igen. N\u00e4r vi k\u00f6pte soffan som s\u00e5ldes i dag, s\u00e5 fick vi ett infall och gjorde oss inte av med den gamla soffan. Sedan dess har vi alltid haft tv\u00e5 soffor, hur litet vi \u00e4n har bott. Vi har varit de som har tv\u00e5 soffor. Nu [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[891],"tags":[80,456,558,711],"class_list":["post-1783","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-891","tag-blocket","tag-mamma","tag-pinsamma-foraldrar","tag-soffa"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p7CFOs-sL","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1845,"url":"https:\/\/www.arhammar.se\/jessica\/fredag-med-det-gamla-gardet\/","url_meta":{"origin":1783,"position":0},"title":"Fredag med det gamla gardet","author":"Jessica","date":"September 28, 2007","format":false,"excerpt":"Hos supermormor och megafarmor serverades kokkaffe, pl\u00e4ttar och trettiotalets l\u00e4seupplevelse. 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